Happy New Year!
Of course, not everything is up to us. Just as we have our own responsibilities, so do others and that is out of our control and is not even our place to control; it is theirs. The expression 'to each their own' applies well in every situation.
The most important however is, not to forget, overlook, and wait for God's part. We don't have to question what His intentions are, or how it will turn out; we can trust and have faith that all He does and gives us is for and in our best interest.
That last is a comforting, peaceful and encouraging knowledge and with that in mind, I wish all of you and yours a very blessed and Happy New Year!
For the LORD God is a sun and shield; The LORD will give grace and glory; No good thing will He withhold From those who walk uprightly.